Say Something

Say something... I'm giving up on you...

潇洒？

总以为人越老越能够潇洒，毕竟人生走了这么长的一段路，很多事情都应该能够看得透彻才对。才发现原来并不是如此，真正潇洒谈何容易，因为真正在乎的人事物，我们又怎么能够潇洒的放下呢？能够放下是因为我们不在意了，不在意的放下有又怎么能称的上潇洒呢？

A Pillar in Life

People get into relationship for different reasons, but the way I see it, no matter the facets of reasons, the essence is to find a pillar to support our life. Living in the modern society, a loner can hardly survive. Steeling oneself against the whole world take a lot of determination and strength, not something for a common man. Especially not when you have realize how life was with the presence of another. True, it takes a lot to maintain that pillar in our life, as it is prone to deterioration. All relationship needs effort from both side to maintain.

Momentum

Just because we meet someone online that seems compatible with each other, doesn't always means that it will translate into something substantial. Often I find that we need to ask the person out right there and then, for a drink, a date or just down right dirty fun, if we were to expect anything out of it. Else, with the momentum lost, all will be lost.

Unlike the good old days where msn is still around, we can drop by to say hi whenever we see the person online, because often, when we see another person on msn, it  means that the other guy is free. But nowadays with whatsapp or line, it's hard to tell if the person is busy with something or not. True, we can still say hi, but how disappointing it is when the person fails to reply or maybe decided to ignore the message instead. I know I have done that many a times, ignoring messages from online acquaintances.

看透

心中起伏如浪潮，原来我的心没有离开过你的身边，说看透只是欺骗自己，我痛苦的泪落向何处？

看透不过是我告诉身边人的话，
在我的心中我清楚知道我所执迷的背影，
敛藏着我对你的亏欠。
但是你已远去，
留下的痕迹已看不见轮廓，
甜美的记忆总是消逝的最快，
我让心隐隐作痛，
只为了留住我对你的思念。