Truth

Sometimes lying is inevitable even when there is no reason to lie, when being truthful doesn’t hurt anybody, yet we chose to lie. It simply provided the easiest way out of a situation, which we believe to be irrelevant to the other person.

Know that a circle, no matter geometry, professional or gay, has a well define boundary. You are bound to bump into the truth when someone lied to you in a circle, whether it’s intentional or not. There were times when I glimpse truth just by listening to what was said by others. Those moments of truth allows me to pierce through the veil and I often proud myself of being such perceptive until it hit me today that what goes around comes around. When you can see truth through another person, so can others pierce through your pretension through the same person.

Such person exist everywhere, we all have the potential of becoming one. It was never intentional but serendipity, well, they work charm. Like it or not, truths, like lies, are sometimes manipulated for personal gain.

帅哥攻略

我们普遍上对帅哥都有一种歧视。我们都巴不得他们帅，都认为他们是肤浅的，爱慕虚荣的，不会珍惜爱他们的人。不能否认确实有些人仗着他们的帅气为所欲为，但笼统的归类帅哥对他们有点不公，因为不是每个帅哥都是这样的。人之初，性本善，世界没有这样黑暗。如果你每每遇到的帅哥都是这样的话，你应该考虑转移你的朋友圈子吧。

很多人面对帅哥的时候都有一种自卑感。他们会觉得帅哥是一种不同种类的生物。他们可以和帅哥们混为朋友但却步于更进一步的交往因为他们都认为帅哥不会看的起他们，不会考虑根他们交往。其实如果你的样子不是太过抱歉的话，要把帅哥弄成你的囊中物也不难。帅哥也是人一个，他们在情感上的需要跟普通人一样，所谓万法归宗，钩帅哥跟钩普通人是大同小异的。有智慧地投其所好，嘘寒问暖，若即若离都能把帅哥玩弄于鼓掌。

一日道，二曰天，三日地，四日将 ，五日法。胜负取决于你钩法的运用和你本身的心态。如果你自己不认为自己能的话，难道帅哥会投怀送抱？想的美。。。当然，有信心和成功是两马子的事，不能混为一谈，但至少没有输了个势。

Maturity

A friend decides to start a relationship with someone in his early twenties. He meets the friend's physical requirements of a boyfriend and he seems to have a matured thinking, which is where all hell nearly break loose. It seems that maturity holds different meaning for people at different age. I don't think that people in their early twenties are childish or tend to throw tantrums, as I was in that age myself and would think that I was matured back then. But the truth is, people at different age looks at daily life differently. We have different level of importance, punctuality, cleanliness, politeness and the list go on. Even people in the same age group do not agreed upon a set of standards, how could cross-age people shares common understanding. 

Granted, it is for the two to work things out between themselves, but then you realized that some things just cannot be accommodated. When you are at a certain age, we require the person that we are going to share our life with to act in a certain way, sometimes failing to realize that it is something accumulated through experience as we age, which our younger counterparts might lack. Or that we are merely in a different phase in life, we have done wild things and now cherish the quiet moments in life, but for them, life just started, who are we to rob them of this freedom?