30 March 2006
It is a common fact and we probably knew it all too well... man are not trustworthy yet we love them nonetheless. So many people was hurt or are still hurting because they have an unfaithful slutty bf but somehow they manage to find reasons to forgive them nonetheless. Was their love so overwhelming that pain has become a part of their joy much akin to anal sex? So what is the reason for such sluttish behavior in the first place? Was it possible that the partner are unable to provide for the others sexual urges? Or man are just animals and are always lead by their cock then their conscience? Both are valid reasons from different point of view but no one would openly admit it. On the other hand, why forgive them? Are they so skilled in bed that the possibility of another one coming by are next to zero? Or do they believe in love conquering all?
By chance, I know of some such unfaithful slutty guys. Their lips are tightly sealed, nobody really wants to talk about this. Being branded is bad enough. Of course I knew of those love fools too, they are not talking either. They will rage on about how unfaithful their ex are and how much they sacrified but it was never their fault. The victim are always right? I doubt it. But it can be rather awakward sometimes to meet a couple, knowing very well that one of them are fooling around while the other are probably not oblivious about it but pretending that nothing happens. I do not know whether I should appluase one of them for a job well done or pity one of them for the pain sustained.
But if the person are trully unable to fulfill the others sexual need, why are they still together? Why not find someone who can? Hmm... probably because those who can doesn't want a relationship. Or they are just being selfish that they can fool around but they don't allow their partners to. Threesome maybe? Nah... sharing is not slutty bf's forte.
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