Too much of a good thing

Men's ego, whether gay or straight, will be hugely amplified if they have a substantial amount of sexual endurance to fuck. Even with the invention of the little blue pill, one would still need to be equipped with endurance and stamina to perform, unless one don't mind to be call the human dildo, forever stiff but never moving. But then it takes two to tango, so without those who appreciate the long lasting sexual stamina, all is for naught.

For those on the path of the Great Promiscuousnous, we know what we fancy in bed, whether it be kissing, nipple play, oral, rimmed, feet worship, ear licking, s&m, we all have our own things that we enjoy. Myself, like many others, enjoyed nipple play. The ecstasy from nipple being licked and sucked and played is cock stiffening. Play with it all night long and I'm content, or so I thought.

It was a session of three where two was dead tired from over indulgence while the third was starting fresh. The problem of course is that the two can't keep up and wanted to sleep while the third was horny as hell. Being a bottom, the third was a bit frustrated with the other two not maintaining hardness, so he went for his other fancy, nipple play. Unluckily lucky, my left nipple was his target. He was on it for two full hours nonstop. It was then that I realised, a two hours nipple play wasn't as arousing as I thought it would be, especially in a drowsy mood.

Sometimes in bed, with libido running high, we brag that we can do what we enjoy all night long, but it's basically a figure of speech. Although I have heard of stories about nonstop humping from 12 to 12, I find it difficult to grasp the fine balance of sore ass and soar high. 2 hours nonstop, that's the max I would accept, or that is my endurance cap.

A thing for underwear

A man in his underwear. We all like to see one especially if he is hunky, cute, handsome and just down right make our groin stirs. Maybe because of the influence of pop culture, we are fed with the image of what a man in underwear should be like.We all yearn to be that man, though some of us succeed, most of us just drool on. But that doesn't stop us from posing in our underwear, because it is a way to sexual escapade.

We are all drawn to the image of hard cock showing under the underwear, or seductive indication that jr is hung like a horse. But the image of a man in plain white CK underwear is over exaggerated because we need a good body to go along with that pair of underwear. If your body is build, whether it's bulky, lean or defined, you'll look great in any underwear. But if you are just a plain joe barely able to suck in the tummy for a half naked shot, different pair of underwear will do you good.

Western porn are often showing men in boxers, briefs or jocks, while Japanese porn offer men in skimpy briefs, jocks, thongs and other more interesting design. It means more to people who has a fetish towards underwear, for those who don't, it's just a piece of cloth to take off in order to access what's underneath.

Personally, I'm more interested with porn that showcase men in underwear doing their things. Wearing underwear for a long foreplay, putting it back on during intermission, jerking while wearing underwear, those things turn me on. The rubbing of semi-erect cock against a tight underwear is arousing, even wilder still when someone's face is on it, rubbing, licking, kissing and playing with the waking giant. It's standard foreplay I guess, but likely to move into the realm of kink when it's prolonged. Guilty as charge, I have a fetish for underwear.

Beauty Under

Woman are mostly conscious about the lingarie they wear, see how big Victoria's Secret become. Woman like it, straight men like it even more. Gay men likes them too, but purely from the aesthetic point of view. Why don't men has such a line in the fashion industry, something big like Victoria's Secrets... It would be nice to see a show where hunky male model walks out in skimpy sexy under garment...

Commercial mens underwear can be so boring sometimes. Even those in porn looks boring. Although a toned handsome man in a pair of simple white brief looks the most sexy... but still, I wish there were more varieties to look at and choose from. To see everyone wearing the same pair of CK boxer brief is starting to get on my-nerves. Somehow, gay men seems to be in two extreme group of CK brief or pasar malam brief.

Underwears usually comes in a pack of 3, except for boxers. Sometimes it is hard to decide on the brand and style. Should I go for those with the name printed on the band so that it shows when I'm wearing a low back jean? Or should I go for mini that squeeze my butt and crotch onto a bubbly shape? Do I go for g-strings to eliminate the unsightly line when I don my skin tight leather pants? Should I really wear jockstrap when I'm going to gym for the sake of being truly sporty? Decisions, decisions, decisions.

Not that I have a collector's fetish towards underwear, but it is nice to have assorted type of underwear to cater for different occasion. A pair of sexy undie really does spice up the sex life. But having 3 pairs of g-string is simply too much to ask for. I really only need one which I probably would only wear once in a very long time. So at times, I find my-self having the evil thought of switching a pair of g-string with that box of 3 piece boring brief that I am buying. But conscience get the best out of me. Imagine buying a pack of g-string just to find that a pair has been switched by some perverted guy. But then again, it's your own fault for not checking...

I wonder if there is a shop that allows you to pick your own undie, that way, I really only to buy once for my year long sexual fantasy role playing... Or maybe I should underwear-pool. You know, three guys buying three pack of different under wear and exchange it among themselves... It sounds oh so weird...

Cycling Pants & Fetishes in general

What is it with cycling pants? I have actually came across a few guys who has cycling pants fetish. Or have I been talking to the same person all the while?  Yes, I have to agree that there is a certain extent of kinkiness to cycling pants, but wouldn't swimming trunks or underwear be much more attainable or kinkier? Maybe it's my personal preferences, but if I am to be interested in the bulge of a guy in cycling pants, might as well look at bulge of swim wear or undie... hmm... Or was there some particular niftiness that I am not catching here... hmm... Latex... covering torso... tight... buldgy... hmm... no, I can't quite catch the bug.

I have also seen foot fetisher. It's kinda ticklish to be "adored" by a foot fetisher. And I can't quite imagine someone who lick my toes and kiss me later.  My feet are dirty? Well, let me enquire then how many out there who wash their feet prior to having sex.

I've also heard of someone who were into fisting. Totally cannot accept it. I mean, that would make anal sex totally redundant. Who else can satisfied him after a fist has gone in. I don't think even a sperm whale could do the job.

But then again, fetish is very personal, everybody has their own cup of tea. Come to think of it, if everyone has the same fetish, it wouldn't be call a fetish, but a recreational hobby or sports instead.