31 July 2013

Japanese, for real?

Had a very interesting conversation on grindr, with a japanese living in KL. He certainly opens my eyes about japanese culture. At first, I was a bit taken aback when he ask if I squat on the toilet seat while taking a dung, that certainly rank high in weirdness when it's the first few questions ask to a stranger. He mentioned that Malaysian guy squat on toilet seat, which he finds fascinating, in a fetish kind of way. He then demonstrate this japanese superiority complex, when he learn that people in this developing country knows about fetishes, just like people in his developed country. I was a bit annoyed with his attitude. Then he told me that when he is younger, around 18-22 years old, his fetish is suits, because during that period, he wears gucci often. I just rolled my eyes.

But then he also tells me that japanese don't do anal sex that often, only 30-40% of them do, because it seems that they don't have the facility to clean their ass for anal sex. They have automated ass cleaning apparatus but not a hose that connects to a water source?  Somehow this seems sensible yet senseless at the same time. Seeing that all I know about japan is through tv, I guess I just have to believe what he said, that anal sex is another form of fetish in japan.

01 July 2013


A month lapsed and I have not updated any post, the blog remains the same just as I remains the same, though one might wonder how much can mere 30 days change a person? Yet I know that the world can turn upside down in a split second. Life that one has known all his life could morph into something totally alien. Alien, not necessary terrible, just different. So much so that one would need extensive period of time to get use to it, but alas human is good at adapting to new surrounding. In time, we cope with what we are thrust into. Hoping that it remains the same from now on.