02 October 2006

Generation Gap

They said that age is a problem in a relationship. If there were a gap of over 3 years in age or more, it would probably not end well. It would mostly be due to mentality compatibility. The direction in life is different. The view of the world is different. The lifestyle is different. The method of spending money is different. Expectation for sex, experience in sex, the stamina to sex, the lust for sex. It's all at different level. Compare yourself to the you 5 years ago, you'll be amaze how much you have grown. If you found that you have miraculously remain the same for the pass 5 years, then it's high time you come out of denial...

When an older man decided to court a younger man, would it be fair to ask the younger male to remain loyal to him? Sure, at first glance, it sounds fair and reasonable that when you are attached, you should be loyal to your partner. But if that someone is 5 to 10 years younger, with very little experience in life, is it fair to demand such loyalty? Robbing them of their opportunity to experience this particular aspect in life. Of course, not many wanted to try rampant sex, but it is wholly on their own willingness and not something force onto them.

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